Here's the excellent news and the not so excellent news. The less than stellar news is, much more than not, it is in fact your fault that you aren't getting what you're after. Now you can't go home and say that you're cursed or something and can't get with a gorgeous girl. Your time for excuses are over. The 411 here is, you can really DO something to transform the outcomes you've been getting- but you're going to have to man up and do some thing outside your comfort zone. Ready?
Here's why she is most most likely not going for you. She's not interested becuase if she's the hottest in her group- everyone understands it & one of the ways she maintains her hot-ness and social standing is her capability to blow you off becuase she understands you want her. She knows that you are interested in her and if she is at all fascinated in at least learning where it might go, she has to take a risk. She understands that if she wants to respond for you that she could lose face and position with her close friends.
You have to get her to think about your value to her differently. Now, before continuing, let's get straight the defintion of flirting technique - what it is and what it can be not.
Flirting technique is not producing behavior another person do one thing they do not would like to be doing. If that's your motive go work out your issues in therapy- not in a social setting with someone. That said...
This Flirting Technique Can Alter Everything
You are able to transform this flirting dynamic by employing a uncomplicated technique! It truly is known as the deflection flirting technique. With it, you change the course of the interaction instantly and successfully.Here's how you do it: Decide on a single of her close friends and give attention to her. When the rest of the group who are not as hot as the woman you are persuing start getting more- you in fact begin to challenge her standing if she doesn't do anything- there is now a risk not being perceived as the hottest woman any longer. Her inaction will now be the threat to her social standing that the action would have been in the previous scenerio!
She will in all probability look to get your interest so you'll be into her- becuase she does not want to be outdone by any of her less hot friends.. She wants what she doesn't have at that moment. And this of course is great for you becuase she's who you were after to begin with. Be aware though, that if you are doing this in an overt way, if you are coming across as pushy and manipulative, more than likely you will be shot down. Be playful. That will make this and any other flirting truely successful.
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